In Love & War

                   People love to say, “Every thing is fair in love and war.”

Light in Sand

                           By Engr. M.A. Basit (SAIM)

I always wondered about the person who first created the idea of resembling love with war. Very possibly, it was a thought to even out the status of the war to that of love or vice versa. But who knows.

There is a possibility that the man making the above statement was a lover trying to find out some justification for the destruction of all the socio-problematic barriers in his way to make two hearts one. Equally, it can be a speech content of an emperor or a combatant whose intention would be to win the sacredness for the bloodshed that his power had caused or premeditated to cause.

Actually, Love is the art of winning the souls through unmatchable etiquettes and making the A to Z’s of the universe a companion of yours for the good and bad times  forever. Love is  the light which once struck against the heart of anyone creates the prismatic scent of life. Love is the light which has thousands of rays those are absorbed, transmitted and reflected through the varying psycho-natural heart-planes of human beings.

The scientific phenomenon of Incidence of light and materials response, in my view, is very much precise technique to understand the variety of human behaviors against love and as well as to estimate the quality of the love that a person claims.  I am a Materials Engineer and I know that the human beings, in a sense, are natural systems based on Bio-materials having a certain absorption co-efficient, reflective index and angle of refraction. Love light entering the heart of someone is a natural phenomenon. Sooner or later, either once or many a times, it happens.  

Peoples some time welcome the love rays incoming and absorb them efficiently in the core of their heart and get energized for some time The change of time makes the love rays to be bent  and to to follow the path as set by these peoples.The love light don't like to reside in such hearts for a longer time and is transmitted thereby. Most often these people are found to be saying,"Everything is fair in love and war." Peoples some time are very flat and coated hard to accept the message of love and they push all the energy down from the door stairs of their heart.

There is one more type of response against the love light. It is when people accept the entrance of the love inside their body and entrap it forever. These people are “Black Body” people. They absorb and don’t reflect; don't refract and don't transmit. These people have no ability to transmit the love light, once absorbed. You can find these people around you, they will have pretty sad faces with energetic eyes directing towards the light of their heart. These people normally have dull silent appearance, but deep inside they have a glow of spiritual flame which is visible only if you have the capability to see inside the dark room.

These people have the tendency to share the glow with the people having more than threshold level of the love light absorption.

Once such a Black Body person said to me, “No my friend! Everything is not fair in war and love. Rather, everything should be fair in Love and War.” 

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